What do artsy guys like

It's not that all creative people are self-destructive, or that none of us end up with awesome people actually, that is where most of us end up, luckily , but before we do, we likely spent way too much time with people who were bad for us because they kept us creatively stimulated.

We're always a little lost in our own technicolor worlds — we're always busy, and always curious, and always so entertained with our minds that even when we want to be in a relationship, we also want a bunch of other things just as much and sometimes the relationship thing doesn't win out. And at first, it can be really hard to differentiate between "we need to be alone" and "we want to get away from you. The upside is that it can honestly result in having a way healthier amount of space in the relationship, which benefits everyone in it.

Highly creative people, most of the time, originally begin their self-expression as a means of self-healing. That is to say, a lot of us have a lot of inner turmoil that fuels our work.

And, to be fair, a lot of us don't have any inner turmoil. The more you get to know us, the more these depths will surface, and from there, you'll have to navigate how much of that will inevitably carry over into thef relationship. So we may avoid that at any costs. We'll date someone, grow to care for them, maybe even commit to something steady, but not often. Not unless it's The One. In fact, very few people know that right away. A side product of our slightly more open, friendly, complex personalities is that we fully commit to every interaction we're having with someone, which can often come off as flirting or being romantically interested.

When you first meet one of us, this can be annoying because you think, "Are they flirting with me or is this just how they speak to everyone? Studies have shown that the part of the brain that lights up for creativity is also the part that controls rumination and self-awareness. Essentially, you'll be dating a bona fide over-thinker with a probable side case of lingering insecurity. Good luck. Our lens on our world is such that we tend to be acutely aware of our dissatisfactions and unfulfilled desires.

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